Knock, Knock. Who’s there? Intuition

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A woman’s intuition is one of her best qualities. I always say, when you know something is up you just know. Can we always trust our gut feely intuition? The answer is YES YES YES HELL YES a million times. Let’s talk relationships. You’re dating a guy and he seems as perfect as can be but 3 months into the relationship he starts acting different. He stops taking your calls, all of a sudden doesn’t have as much time for you, and always has an excuse. You decide to give him the benefit of the doubt and suppose maybe he’s going through something and to stick with him. But there’s that feeling, that little voice in the back of your head, telling you to maybe put your guard up. You choose to ignore it and go about your way. A month later you find out that he’s been unfaithful. After imagining how you should kill him, your second thought is…”how could I be so stupid?” Yes, yes it is don’t lie this is a comfortable and safe space. Every girl, as much as they don’t want to admit, starts to think of how stupid they have been and how could they not have known all this time. We knew the entire time we just second guessed ourselves. We decided to not pay attention to our bodies when they spoke to us but that doesn’t make us stupid. We did it for love. Wanting to be in love is natural for us women and it’s a beautiful thing, but be in love with yourself first. Next time your body is crying out to you make sure that you listen. Pay attention to your intuition it can save you time, tears, and one bad ass headache.